Why not follow both your passions AND the opportunities around you? Why does it have to be an either/or thing?
If you're passionate about something, chances are you'll spot opportunities to do it. "Follow your opportunities" is good advice, but this article fails to realise that some (most?) of us won't feel that we've fulfilled our purpose in life (irrespective of religious considerations - I'm talking about that sense of self-fulfillment you get when you're doing something you think is worthwhile) if we spend it castrating lamb with our teeth.
So follow your passion AND your opportunities. Don't settle for only one.
There's nothing wrong with your advice. The problem is that too many people think they must find their passion in their work and that's a tall order to fill. Far easier to work to pay the bills and indulge your passions after that's done.
I disagree with that. I enjoy what I'm doing, I'm passionate about it, and having done it the other way as well, I wouldn't change back. It's great to wake up in the morning and think "Yes! I'm going to spend all day working!" without a trace of sarcasm.
Some people may be able to do a job that they hate, but it saps my soul.
I'm glad you enjoy your job. I share your sentiments as well, but I think what the parent was talking about, is that some kids are thrown "Follow your dreams" so much that they are paralyzed by it. You and I are lucky to have found our passion now, but what were you doing before you found your passion? Some kids don't know their passion yet, and hence can't stand to work any job; doing anything, even sticking with a "random" faculty seems betrayal to their true calling. I've seen so many people who just wont do anything with their lives while they're just "waiting" for that feeling to kick in. They go to a job and come home navel gazing, thinking "is this it? is this it?" and when no magical sparks happen in the first week, they decide this isn't for them and is beneath them, and quit or just don't show up. Same thing in relationships: we're fed 'if you find the right person it'll be perfect bliss' so often that we're not willing to just do the dirty work, and find happiness in it. In short, we are a generation that doesn't know how to "settle". "Settling" and "Contentment" are shameful words in our society.
I see what you're saying, and I agree. That's why I say you should follow both passions and opportunities. Certainly if all the good opportunities aren't stuff that you're that passionate about, you should follow the opportunities - while looking out for more appropriate opportunities.
I did, however, get the impression, from the article, that it implied you should forget about passion and just do what everyone else doesn't want to do. That to me is just as stupid as what you're describing (following passions only).
yeah, totally. While it's nice to hear someone sing a different tune for once, i also got the impression that somehow "passion == wrong". really, we should be giving kids a flowchart --> passionate about something? (yes) go for it (no) be willing to do anything opportunity turns up, and keep your ears open for when passion calls. Loop every so often until you end up with a "yes".
It was by total fluke that I got into programming at all, but if I had been a "dream waiter" bum who did nothing all my life, I wouldn't have had the resources or maturity to follow that dream when it did turn up.
A friend of mine grew up on a farm in Idaho. Apparently, the upside of birthing a cow is that "at least you've got somewhere warm to stick your hands."
The other thing was that these lambs were prepubescent, quite literally you have to fish the balls out. I saw the episode and it took one person to hold the lamb, one to hold its legs apart and one person using both hands to get the balls out of the body so it would be highly inefficient to add yet another person to this process to clamp and pull them off.
There are other ways to do this, just none of them do it fast enough. One method is to put a big elastic band around the scrotum and wait two weeks for them to drop off, the problem with this is that some of those lambs become mature in that time and then you get multiple Rams that end up trying to kill each other, one of which is likely an ideal breeder you need alive. This method supposedly only takes 2 people to do, however it takes 2 weeks to complete, where as biting takes 3 people and 2 minutes to complete so you've got the entire herd done before you've fully castrated your first lamb using the technological method.
Hm, the scary thing is, I think if my true passion was picking up road kill, I would probably never find out. It would never have occured to me to try that profession. So I am doomed :-(
I picked up roadkill for two summers in a row while working for the DPW, but we never called it roadkill, we denoted the dearly departed as 'buddies'. It was sorta funny since you may wonder, "Where do all them buddies go after you get done pickin em all up?" They all went in this 12ft hole known as the buddy pit.
Hmmm. Some of the jobs are extreme examples but a smart kid I knew since he was a toddler - when he graduated from high school in his valedictory address said, "Work doesn't necessarily make you happy. but it may give you to means to do the stuff that makes you happy."
There is a point that some of the most profitable jobs are those that people don't like to do and/or niches.
a common thread seems to be working outside and/or working with animals. I'm convinced that there are qualities to these jobs that resonate more with our innate (evolved) abilities than a desk / programming job. I'm thinking of taking 3-4 months off to volunteer in a national park (or something like that) between my current job and my next
There is something to that. I live on a farm and while I bitch about going outside in subzero temperatures to care for the animals, there is a satisfaction in doing the basic, hard physical work that I don't get from sitting at a desk programming.
We are definitely hardwired to be outside and it's sad that we spend so much of our time indoors. Surrounded by the white silence of snow, admiring the beauty of sundogs on a -10F morning is an amazing way to begin a workday.
And starting out your day sliding around in mud & chickenshit certainly gives you perspective when listening to some drone in a meeting :-)
I hear there's this material called "flint" that works well for that kind of thing; if you hit it at the right angle with a rock, it forms a sharp edge, very similar to your teeth, and you can use the edge to cut all sorts of things.
If you're passionate about something, chances are you'll spot opportunities to do it. "Follow your opportunities" is good advice, but this article fails to realise that some (most?) of us won't feel that we've fulfilled our purpose in life (irrespective of religious considerations - I'm talking about that sense of self-fulfillment you get when you're doing something you think is worthwhile) if we spend it castrating lamb with our teeth.
So follow your passion AND your opportunities. Don't settle for only one.