I use to be.... a pretty big party guy. But eventually I kind "aged out" of that scene. I recognized a few years back that I was missing the hanging out. But I still didn't want to go back to the club life. So I reached out to a few old friends to see if anyone was interested in playing d&d. Now, for years, my wife and I host a game every Friday and Sunday. It's helped fill the niche in an old man kinda way.