I really don’t understand why generally people who hold this perspective don’t see the irony. You’re saying that everyone is literally being alive incorrectly. I generally agree, however I don’t constantly project that onto others. It seems more and more often this is just becoming yet another method of virtue signaling. If someone wants to spend 14 hours a day working on some shit, and they say it’s how they’d like to spend their time, how the fuck can you feel justified in saying “no you’re wrong, I know better”. This trope is just so toxic IMO. Live your life differently than others, but If you really need the validation of others so badly you have to constantly remind others that you’re really living your life differently, maybe just do the same thing as everyone else…