I am not sure the answer matters much. Society evolves beyond our individual power to control it. Being able to adapt to that change is a useful skill that yields benefits not only in the workplace but in society generally. I don't know about you, but I don't want to become one of those grumpy old men who does nothing but complain about "those kids today."
My question would be, have you ever adapted to a social change that you think is bad? It seems almost impossible to live by the standard you're describing, unless you define "society" so narrowly that it only includes causes you're on board with. If I'm the lunch room talking about my tasty chicken curry, and a few PETA members come by to explain that the new term is "bird flesh", should I listen to them?
Good question. I'm not sure I would necessarily bend to them, but it really depends on the situation. What's on the line? What are the costs and benefits of acting, or not acting? Do I really need to die on that particular hill at that particular moment? Can I just smile and nod and save that argument for another day, or move to a different room?
I will admit that what makes this easier for me is that I think society is generally moving in the right direction, towards more diversity, more equity, more tolerance, less racism, etc. If I felt things were going in the wrong direction, I would stand up against it. But it's always easier when the river carries you in the direction you want to go.
Sorry I don't have a great answer here, but what I do know from experience is that most of the time, standing solely on principle while the hilltop is crumbling underneath you isn't a very safe place to be. :-)
