You probably won't like this answer, but most people are lost in one way or another, they just put a brave face on it and pretend that they know what they are doing and why they are doing it. Find some older people to talk to and see how they managed getting through this phase, that will get you a lot further than talking to peers or younger people.
> You probably won't like this answer, but most people are lost in one way or another
The alternative is having lots of problems and being in an objectively bad situation. If you're just feeling lost, it means you have solved most of your problems - congrats! I find it never really gets much easier, or much harder.
