I didn't dive into Vaex's implementation, but based on the example code, I would say they are similar in the sense that they all provide a Dataframe interface for end users to perform compute on relational data.
It looks like Vaex focuses more on end users like data scientists while Datafusion focuses more on being a composable embedded library for building analytical engines. For example, InfluxDB IOx, Ballista and ROAPI all uses Datafusion as the compute engine.
On top of that, Datafusion also comes with a builtin SQL planner so users can choose between Dataframe and SQL interfacts.
It looks like Vaex focuses more on end users like data scientists while Datafusion focuses more on being a composable embedded library for building analytical engines. For example, InfluxDB IOx, Ballista and ROAPI all uses Datafusion as the compute engine.
On top of that, Datafusion also comes with a builtin SQL planner so users can choose between Dataframe and SQL interfacts.