Whether you find yourself using them and whether they're actually necessary are two different things :)
I've gotten use out of generics in "application code", but I've also been bewildered by overly-complex generics-within-generics-within-generics written by other people in application code. It's hard to be conclusive, but I wouldn't be surprised if they've done more harm than good across application contexts.
To me, that's a shining example of the problems I've run myself into when trying to squeeze much power out of Java-style generics. I never seem to encounter similar problems in F#. Scala, it depends on how successful I am at not losing a boot in the mud.
Generic programming was born in a language whose other pioneering features were algebraic data types and an HM type system. I've never really seen a first-rate example of one that didn't come paired with at least passable examples of the others.
I've gotten use out of generics in "application code", but I've also been bewildered by overly-complex generics-within-generics-within-generics written by other people in application code. It's hard to be conclusive, but I wouldn't be surprised if they've done more harm than good across application contexts.