I hope you and your mother are happy living without open source software. No good deed goes unpunished.
I don't understand what you're saying here. Users can run apps that aren't notarized. Therefore, developers are not required to notarize their apps.
If you want users who refuse to run non-notarized apps to be able to run your app, you'll have to notarize your app...
I hope you and your mother are happy living without open source software. No good deed goes unpunished.