I'm sorry to hear that. Just to clarify, you're saying you hate your father despite him having done nothing intentionally to deserve that hatred? You're obviously not obliged to go into more detail, but I guess I'm wondering if your message is: "Be warned that you can have kids and do your best as a parent and they might end up hating you anyway"?
The specific part of your comment, which is true, is, yes, I am essentially warning that you can do your absolute best to raise a child and put their interests (as you see it) ahead of your own, and they still may end up hating you for it.
I'm not, however, going to comment on any other part of your response. I just don't want to get into it.
