You are obviously a male - when it comes to providing best genes from rich individuals, there seems to have been no shortage of females that wanted to have babies from Elon Musk with his autistic genes...
I am forgetting how serious ASD people can be without having able to make any jokes. Relax, dude - by the time when government will be able to provide such services, all the humans will have autistic genes - there clearly are some natural advantages to people, that are multiplying with those genes and spreading them around. And unfortunately to say this, but natural selection is the only thing that will weed out those so called "heavy autistic cases" and they will cease to be a problem in time.
Yup, autism spectrum tends to strongly mess with your ability to find a romantic partner. And that is decidedly selected against.
However, I don't think the random nature of evolution will have a meaningful effect on humanity going forward. We will soon reach the point of selecting for more desirable genes. Done badly it would be Gattaca.
To me autism is defined by how some of our genes work(or doesn't work). I'm not into analogies, but the difference between normal Aspie and nonverbal person is not that big - by using your analogy both of them have stomach pain, but the result seems to be wildly different - one of them is able to communicate almost like other normal humans and they can't even tell that Aspie has a stomach pain.
As for different medical conditions - imagine, that previously mentioned Aspie in different environment can have stomach pain, because it is caused by environment and not by stomach pain. Yes - there are some medical conditions, that also comes from genetical conditions and those just happen to be in neighbourhood to autism for no other reason than just general damage to DNA. And the issue here is that we actually do not fully know how DNA functions - only some of the bits.
I'm pretty sure, that parents, that have autistic kids have not only autistic genes, but also some autistic behaviour. My mother is not diagnosed and she is quite unhinged female and sometimes also very logical. And she also have been talking about me crap with other people, so it perfectly describes autistic parent.
Unfortunately, but the main issue is that people, that are trying to take control of talking space are acting like humans do and in autistic circles they are most efficient at taking over... also, the obsession levels in activity is quite high, as that is topic that they are interested in.
It is because how system works. You might be upset about label, but this is least worry for me but even people with great ability to perform as part of work team and no ability to form relationships need that help to get back into workforce and figure out what is actually going on with them.
To be fair, I have a bit different impression from specialists, where ASD as spectrum overlapps with other conditions, like ADHD, OCD, BP and I have a bit of linguistical background to extend and call it spectrum spectrum... also, I'm too lazy for that.
Generally under "really bad autism" is not meant as part of the spectrum of conditions, but a very narrow behavioral problem that parents have to deal with. The difference between what makes autistic person a "really bad autism" also differs for various social situations, so let's not go there...
> a very narrow behavioral problem that parents have to deal with
Let's not define autism in relation to what other people have to deal with. For years, autism has been discussed not in terms of what the autistic person experiences but what the people around them experience. That's kind of BS. Someone else being autistic isn't about you, it's about them.
You're welcome to talk about people with "high support needs", or people who have certain struggles in social situations, but discussing "really bad autism" just reinforces that negative stigma that autistic people shouldn't be thought of as people but rather as problems that "normal" people have to deal with.
No. #2 is bad analogy and the way you are describing is misunderstanding of what ASD means as spectrum. It is not RGB, but more like list from tens of different diagnoses - probably ranging to 20 or 30 in number, so more than 4, that colors are offering and that also means more dimensions, but could include more, that some people manage to get as some kind of collection - some people have collected nearly 20 of those to illustrate the problem, that people diagnosed with ASD are similar but at the same time different in their own way. Another issue is because of ASD you do not get to collect other Autistic-related diagnoses, that would narrow your condition.
On top of that, if you have ASD diagnosis, you definitely have other issues that describe your condition more, especially mental issues. Also, some of them are going to change - some can go away, because environment changes or simply because your understanding of issues have changed. A lot of the struggles are because diagnosed people even after diagnoses do not understand what exactly they have to deal with.
The issue is how these conditions are diagnosed - there are some similarities with LGBTQ+ that initially was labeled as a disease. And there is cautious fluidity in labeling because of that as well, because ASD is not completely understood, as we are really in the very beginning on mapping both of our brain functions and DNA - what those genes are responsible for. Also, the number increase of ASD might have other factors involved in the way how we as modern people are using our brains by dealing with all that information that humans previously did not need to do and most probably ASD is species wide change that we are causing as our behaviour has changed, especially when our unwritten beaviour rules are breaking down. When we have to compare this to how species are described, humans alone would be consisting of different species - the only difference why we are not different species is because of mixing.
Yeah, nobody wants to speak with me anyway - they just scurry away, so no problem with that...